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These ways of life are so named because they are other ways of living.  Included is Swinging, homosexuality, which includes gay men and gay women (lesbians), and bisexuality.  Occasionally gays will think that the term is derogatory.  It is not meant to be in this sense.  I apologize if it's taken this way.  No offense is meant.

What all of the lifestyles have in common, is that because for one reason or another, they're not socially acceptable, it is often very difficult to meet other people.

This is because unless one is "out", it is uncomfortable to make public ovations toward other people.  Because of this, other non typical methods are necessary when it comes to meeting other people.

Another major difference applies to gay men, swingers, bisexuals, and to a much lesser extent to lesbians.  This difference is in the relative promiscuity to the rest of the population.  Consequently it is difficult to rely on traditional methods, such as family, friends, church, etc.

The old adage "You get what you pay for", really applies here.  There is no "free lunch".

You will have to pay for something in some way.  It may be that you're deluged with banner advertising, or pop-up windows.  Or  the complimentary aspect, may be merely a "come on".  Somewhere along the line, you will probably be asked for money.  And this only makes sense.  The internet isn't free, so why would we expect the ads to be.

Actually the classified personals are an excellent value.  People pay quite a bit for swingers magazines.  What they get is static and unchanging.  With a computerized version of the same magazine, you get a dynamic listing.  With the better systems you get updates as soon as new entries are made.  Many have pictures attached to the ads, which are usually of much better quality than the magazines.

The good ones offer you protection for your naked pictures from copying.  It's much safer than mailing your pics all over the internet and consequently the world.  Who knows where they will end up?

The easiest place to find it is in the swinging lifestyle.  The reason is that everyone is looking for Group Sex in this arena.  It's what they come for.  In fact you can actually see and participate in an orgy.  Orgies are actually common.  The first time I saw a group of people having sex together, I could hardly believe my eyes.  There, in the orgy room was a sea of writhing bodies, right in front of me.  I have never seen so many people in so much ecstasy.  It seemed like every one was either connected by some part of their body or another.

It was surprising how few of the people were wearing condoms.  But apparently people feel safer with other couples that other than swinging are monogamous.  They feel that the people are safe because it's a closed circle of people.

A dream come true.  They are just so darned efficient.  Why should you go to bars?  Why should you try to meet people at work? (You know what they say about that.)  What you should be doing is fishing in a barrel, and that's exactly what this is.  It use to be that people would go the magazine route to use the classifieds.  The problem was the huge delay.  You had to deal with short closing dates and far off publishing dates.  In other words:  You had to rush to get your ad in.  Then you had to wait a couple of months for it to be published.

The biggest inconvenience of all, though, was that if someone responded to your ad, they sent it to the magazine.  The magazine then placed the response in the SASE (Self Addressed Stamped envelope) that you provided and actually mailed it to you.

Many people ask about the arousal factor with men, in swinging.  How do you avoid getting a hard-on with all those beautiful naked people around.  The answer is similar to what people tell you about a nude beach.  You get use to it.  The nudity although stimulating, becomes a secondary issue, compared to everything else that is going on.

Back to the beautiful people.  They're not all beautiful.  Some are.  But the people you will meet and be with are a slice of society.  They are all ages, all shapes, sizes, colors, and nationalities. It's wonderful to see all these people coming together to enjoy their sexuality.

Here we have a media that is very specific to people that want to get "physical" very quickly.  There is no "beating around the bush", here  (No Pun intended - lol).  For this reason, it's important to that everyone has reasonable expectations.  Without this, failure is nearly certain.  There is such a large range of desires and wants within human fantasy that there is an equally large range of expectations.  When you add the component of everyone moving at their own pace, it really complicates the situation. What can be done about this?  The most important aspect of this lifestyle is communication.  Communication with each other, if you're a couple and communication with the person or people you are trying to meet.  After all, how can you possibly expect to have expectations match up, without effective communication.  The answer is that it is impossible to make an effective match, without quality communication, without the biggest coincidence in history.

Found all over the world.  We are talking about some of the most open minded people you will ever meet.  They are also extremely considerate, comfortable people to be with.  Of course they have been thoroughly indoctrinated with the Golden Rule of Swinging, which is "No is No".  In other words no one should ever be asked to do something more than once.  This takes the pressure off.  It gives everyone, especially the women, an extra layer of security and comfort.  The phrase can be used to stop a verbal or physical advance.  Everyone honors it.  The fastest way to get kicked out of a club is by ignoring this rule.

Again, consideration abounds in this lifestyle.  For example you could be in a crowded room full of naked people.  No one would even brush into another person without apologizing.

You have to take your hat off to these people.  It is really challenging to pull "it" off.  Think about it.  Think about how hard it is to meet another person that you want to invest time with and have sex with.  We're looking at two completely distinct individuals, with two completely separate sets of wants and desires.

Now take a look at what is involved when two couples are involved.  Consider all the factors:

1. Because of the challenge of swinging the opportunity for jealousy and tension within each respective relationship is exaggerated.

2. Unfortunately this lifestyle is an endeavor outside what is considered socially acceptable.  This ads tension.

3. Not only is there the dynamic between the individuals, but each person has to accept two other people.  You have guy 1 and girl 1, guy 1 and girl 2, guy 1 and girl 2, guy 1 and guy 2, girl 1 and guy 2, girl 1 and girl 2, guy 2 and girl 2, and finally everyone interacting as a group.

It is now wonder that it is some times challenging to make this all come together.

This refers to so many different concepts.  Different people consider swinging differently.  Some like to just be around other people that have an open sexual orientation.  Other People like to have sex in the same room, with no physical contact.  Others may want to be in the same bed, but still with no physical contact.  Some couples will hop into the same bed, however, will stick pretty much to the same partner, with just the occasional touch.  Other couples enjoy actually having sexual contact with the other person's partner.  This could include oral, anal, intercourse, etc.  The concepts we've discussed so far, would be considered soft swinging.  Although, some consider any swinging without full penetration or intercourse or fucking, to be soft swinging.

Hard swinging would consist of actually having full sex with the other person's partner.  There is still though, a full continuum within the hard swinging category.  Some couples stay in the same bed, others the same room, and others completely separate for the evening.

These are more like other personals, except that the concentration is on swinging.  Now this does not mean that it has to be couples only.  Singles are often welcome.  In fact the term "select" singles is frequently used.  It must be said that the single female is usually more welcome statistically than the single male.  There are numerous exceptions.

The single female is a hot commodity because of  male fantasy component.  A enormous percentage of the sexually active male population, has as a fantasy of being with two women at the same time.  The male penis often becomes more like a heat seeking missile, with the prospect of  accomplishing this two on one fantasy.

This is the hands down, best shot for a man to have two women at the same time.  Because most of the couples include a bisexual woman, it is the perfect opportunity.  Consider a perfect party atmosphere combined with alcoholic beverages, food, and sexually clad women that are ready to party.  It's perfect! 

When you arrive, it appears to be like any other party you might attend.  Then, as the night gets later, one by one the ladies tops and brassiere start to come off.  It is truly an amazing site.  You've never seen so many live breasts, boobs and tits in one place at one time in your life.

Then comes the "ladies only dance".  All the women start dancing with other.   You'll see as many as six or more dancing together.  If they're not naked already, they undress each other.   They're rubbing each other, sucking fingering each other, rubbing each other's pussies.  You have to check it out.  

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Where else would you get to see naked women, couples fucking, swapping of partners and people having the times of their lives.  Most people go their whole lives without even knowing what really goes on throughout the country in most major metropolitan area.  People don't realize how easily it would be for their dreams to come true.

The advent of the computer has made it so easy to get involved in swinging, bisexual, homosexual, gay and lesbian activities.  Before you would have had to rely on specific known bars or niche magazines to learn where, when and what was going on in the sexual community.

Not so today.  Logon to American Online (AOL), and you'll find that most of the chat rooms are geared specifically to the various sexual lifestyles.  In fact I think they get most of their business from these sectors.

From the chat rooms it is easy to meet other people that want exactly what you want.  Of course though, you do have to be careful.  Remember, you are meeting strangers.  Take all the traditional precautions.  But then when you're ready, "let the games begin."

This is an excellent way to meet people like yourself.  It gives you an opportunity to learn much about a person or couple, in a safe environment.  Usually you can see pictures of the individuals involved.  It takes a lot of work for these people to put a page on the internet.  Consequently, if someone goes to this much trouble, they're likely to be serious about meeting, and ultimately swinging.   You should be aware that there are many more people that don't have sites than do have them.  This is because in order to put a page up on the web, some computer expertise is required.  Consequently, if you want a more diverse selection, you're better off referring to the classifieds, parties or clubs.

Couples seem to hold an elite position among swingers.  Perhaps people feel safer with them.  This could be because when couples get together, they don't worry about one of the parties running off with their spouse.  This helps to take care of some of the jealousy.

Jealousy still does come into play, however.  Even couples that have been in the life style for ten years or more, occasionally get jealous.  It's important to have an understanding with each other, before getting involved.  Set your own limits. And don't go beyond them.

To assist in couples meeting one another, some have published Swinging Couples Home pages.  This assists them in meeting other like-minded couples to have sex with.  If a couple goes to the trouble of putting up a their own web site, it's likely that they have a secure relationship.  This helps to assure that there won't be a fight over trivial matters when you are with them.

Many consider this to be the ultimate sexual fantasy.  There are actually two types.  Believe it or not, many women have the fantasy of having two men at once.  Some women even want to have one of the guys hold her down, while the other fucks or eats her.

Then of course there is the Male fantasy of having two women at once.  As we discussed this is very doable.  The challenge is that sometimes you have to be "careful what you ask for as you might get it".  Men don't realize it but there are several factors that contribute to men having difficulty in swinging.

This is akin to many of the other lifestyles which involve couples.  The implication is one of more separation, though.  In other swinging situations, it's common to exchange partners, but usually with each other present.  (This is also by, the way entirely  different from polygamy, which is more akin to a culture than a lifestyle.)

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